I have not updated this recently on account of having been VERY BUSY, so I am adding two new posts today: Bilbo's birthday, and my first day at UCD.
Highlights:
Dinner was good- I made a brisket braised in stout gravy with mushrooms and carrots, mashed potatoes and garlic rolls. I made a chocolate stout layer cake for dessert. Blake's buddies were nice. We watched Star Wars.
Current mood: tired
Details: I made the brisket on Monday at my house and then finished cooking it on Tuesday in Blake's kitchen. His sister and I cleaned up and she helped me find the cookware I needed to finish preparing the food. People started arriving around 7:30. I already know Matt, one of his best friends, and Matt's fiance Rachel. I met Lee, Dave, Stu, Kei, Hung (Kei's boyfriend) and Fox. I spent a good part of the evening talking with Rachel about family and wedding plans etc, etc, but did see part of Star Wars (Episodes 4 and 5) with the guys. No one was able to explain why we were watching Star Wars on Bilbo's birthday (not that I have a problem with Star Wars), but Blake said Bilbo would have appreciated it. I have heard since that all of Blake's friends approve of me, especially Matt and Rachel. I'm looking forward to spending more time with them.
Here are my impressions of Blake's friends:
Matt is funny, and possibly the most outgoing of the bunch next to Stu. Rachel is an excellent foil for him, and is a lot like me. She is creative, and has a knack for feeling out people's personalities. I met her last week Sunday- Blake and I went out to dinner with Matt and Rachel after church, and I was glad that Tuesday nights' conversation added to my good opinion of her, and hers of me. Dave is a classic computer geek. If he could speak in binary, I think he would (and who knows? He probably can...) Blake is a nerd, which I love, but he isn't a computer geek. Quite the opposite, actually, with a great deal more social savvy. Lee is Blake's flatmate, so I am surprised I hadn't met him yet. He evidently spends a lot of time with his girlfriend who recently had gall bladder surgery. He thanked me for cleaning the kitchen and said he'd never seen it that clean before. Bachelor. Shocker. Stu is funny. He kept bugging me to socialize with everyone while I was doing the dishes- they've never met a woman of the Joseph bloodline. The kitchen will be left clean! Anyway, at one point he came to stand next to me and said "You're so tiny!". I think I got a similar reaction from Blake when he first met me because 4'11" looks taller on paper than in real life, I suppose. Stu is perhaps the least natural-nerd of the bunch- he seems to be nerd-by-osmosis. Kei and Fox would fit in well in LA- thin, blonde, and confident that those two things will satisfy all other character qualifications. That is likely not a fair assessment, since I didn't spend as much time with them as with the others. Rachel is more than a cut above both, and according to Blake it is more important that I get along with her than with them. Hung, Kei's boyfriend, seemed nice but not quite nerd enough to roll with the crowd. In all, it is an interesting mix of people brought together by various interests, but the sheer force of their personalities holds them together.